Going on a first date can be an exciting and a nerve-wracking experience. Sure, it’s always great to meet someone new but inmost cases, a first date may put you in that situation when you want to be yourself and showcase your good side at the same time.
Of course, you also want to assess if the guy you’re dating is really worth of your time and attention. There are really some terrible people out there and you want to recognize the red flags early on.
Here are some signs that your date is probably not the one.
1. He won’t quit talking about his ex.
First dates aren’t exactly the right time to discuss about past relationships. If your date talks too much about his ex – especially if all you’re hearing are non-stop bitter rants – you might as well take that as a warning to run the opposite direction.
2. He’s rude to service workers.
As CollegeHumor writer Beth Mccoll tells us:
“You can tell so much about a person by how they treat waiters and waitresses. Being rude to someone on minimum wage who’s just doing their best in a fairly stressful environment is always very sh***y, and shows a lack of patience and grace that personally doesn’t make me want to jump into bed.”
3. He disrespects your boundaries.
Is he too touchy? Does he insist on going back to your place although you’ve already said no? Is he deliberately making fun of topics you’re obviously not comfortable about? Beware since all these (and other similar insensitive acts) are definitely creep alerts.
4. He does all the talking.
An ideal relationship is always a two-way street – and so is a good conversation.
Does he talk too much about himself? Does he brag about his salary or car? Is he even interested about you? If he’s doing all the talking and not even asking you any questions, then that should say something about your date.
5. He often puts you (or other women) down.
He may think its just a joke but if he loves put-downs and does it to you and/or other women comfortably, that should be a warning. Clearly, a first date isn’t a good time for such crap.
6. He drinks heavily.
Having a few drinks during a date is fine but if he’s too drunk to carry a good conversation, then what’s the point of going out anyway, right? If he’s puking all over and you have to carry him to a cab, he should have just drank with his buddies instead. He clearly doesn’t value your time or presence.
10 Reasons Why Women Fall For Bad Boys
#7 is the most popular one.
You may have heard the line “nice guys finish last,” and it’s probably because most women are attracted to bad boys. There is something about them that some women cannot resist.
So why do bad boys seem to be so irresistible to most women? Here are 10 of the reasons why.
1. Bad boys are more fun
14 Qualities Of A Woman That Hint She Might Be ‘The One’
Here are qualities of a woman which should help you decide if she really is the one for you.
Being in a relationship is hard, especially when you’re already looking for “the one.” This isn’t just a quick hook-up anymore or a trial and error thing. This is the moment when you ask yourself if the woman by your side is the one you want to spend the rest of your life with?
There are some sure signs to help you decide if she’s really the one for you. If a woman has these 14 qualities, never let her go.
1. She's smart
The First Thing You See In This Image Says Something About Your Personality
Do you see the lips, the trees, or the roots? The explanations are here!
Remember those fun personality tests we see on social media? We’ve got one for you right now and you might want to take a look. You know, just for fun!
We got this one from RunWonder and this shows an image that seemingly reveals something about your personality. Go check it out below and see if you agree with the results.